Moms: A lost personality

Motherhood is really the world nicest thing. Sometimes Moms quit job. Some join job after their maternity leaves. But life will never be the same. In office your colleague not really pay you same honor. When she is at home, the responsibility is at the top. In all the cases, her own life disappears. What are her like dislikes, when she last enjoyed truly for herself. And even somehow she enjoyed for herself, she treats herself as selfish. Is there a way that will create a win-win situation?